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How to Make Love Every Day
guides readers towards a new way of viewing love and relationships. It looks
at relationship counselling, selfless thinking, the erroneous nature of
striving for change, and the nature of real love and affection - all from
our own experience of making love every day throughout thirty years of
marriage.
We
discuss the myths about love and relationships that many of us have been
conditioned into believing. To us, lasting love derives from caring,
affection and kindness. That is all.
We wanted to write this because we see so
many couples struggling in relationships that cause so much pain, loneliness
and disconnection with each other as the routine of life, past history and
feelings of meaninglessness take over. What is the cure? AFFECTION! So
you too can feel that deep connection with your partner no matter what path
you each may be taking.
This book will help you to rebuild a struggling relationship, to develop
self-acceptance and the feeling of inner confidence, or to attract a
partner, or overcome past history; and how to live an affectionate
life, with a passionate love life.
The
true qualities of affection are kindness, caring, and respect - both in the
bedroom and out. These are not demonstrated by actions or words alone, they
arise from a state of mind. Too much thinking paralyses our ability to get
in touch with the feeling of love within ourselves. When that happens it is
impossible to give selfless love; that is, to laugh, be non-judgemental and
affectionate with the one we are with.
Hugging, touching, cuddling and stroking, in
front of others is normal healthy and sane. Being affectionate every day, in
public as well as in private, makes for a great love life. Making love is
about genuine bonding, and to enjoy great sex, we need to cultivate genuine
love; and this means being aware of kindness and affection within ourselves
throughout our day and showing these qualities to everyone we meet.
We do not believe you need to struggle to
change. Instead, refocus: listen and be selflessly attentive, and stop
memories and rational thought intruding into your awareness. Only then can
you make love every day.
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